St Kilda has changed so much over the years that I sometimes feel as though I am visiting a place caught between memory and reality. I was glad, at least, to find the old pier still stretching into the water, a familiar landmark holding its ground against the passing of time. Beyond it, Melbourne’s skyline continues to grow wider and taller, its ever-expanding collection of buildings reshaping the horizon I have known for decades.
Time really does change everything. I have lived in Melbourne for more than 36 years now. When I stop to think about it, that is a substantial part of a lifetime. Yet, people still occasionally ask me when I jumped off the boat, as though I have only recently arrived on these shores. Perhaps it is my accent that gives me away, an unusual blend that belongs neither exclusively to Mandarin nor to any of the other Chinese dialects I speak. What makes it rather amusing is that I completed my medical training entirely here in Australia, working my way through the local system from beginning to end, much like any other locally trained doctor. Apparently, even three and a half decades are not always enough to convince people that you have been here for a while.
St Kilda, too, has lost some of the little things that once made it familiar. My favourite café, where I used to indulge in its excessively sweet ice cream and decidedly overpriced fish and chips, is no longer there. Perhaps the food was never quite as good as I remember it, but that was never really the point. Some places become part of our lives through the simple repetition of ordinary pleasures, until one day we realise that we have been collecting memories without knowing it.
The old pier remains, the skyline keeps rising, and the familiar streets continue to change their faces. I suppose Melbourne has been moving forward all these years, just as I have. Yet, standing in St Kilda today, I cannot help feeling that a little piece of the place I once knew has quietly slipped away.
Perhaps that is what time does best. It leaves enough behind for us to recognise, but takes just enough away to remind us that we can never truly return to the past.
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